is there love among humans?

according to 1Corinthians 13:4

Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.

that should be what i can learn from, a reminder to myself. For all too.

It is not easy to love another human. A human who is so imperfect. Another person who sins. Another person who may break your heart one day. Another person who might betray you. Another person who does not 100% understand you though you wish he will.

To me, relationship is not a trial. It is a confirmation. It is something to me, serious and not just a play thing because when you decide to enter a relationship with someone, both should be working toward marriage. For REal. and marriage?

1. Marriage is not a word. It's a sentence....(a life sentence)
2. Marriage is love. Love is blind. Therefore marriage is an institution for the blind
3. Marriage is an institution in which a man loses his Bachelor's Degree and the
Woman gets her masters
4. Marriage is a three ring circus: engagement ring, wedding ring and suffering
5. Married life is full of excitement and frustration:
In the first year of marriage, the man speaks and the woman listens.
In the second year, the woman speaks and the man listens.
In the third year, they both speak and the NEIGHBORS listen.
6. Getting married is very much like going to a restaurant with friends.
You order what you want, and when you see what the other person has,
you wish you had ordered that instead.
7. Son: How much does it cost to get married, Dad?
Father: I don't know son, I'm still paying for it.
8. Son: Is it true Dad? I heard that in ancient China , a man doesn't know his wife
until he marries her.
Father: That happens everywhere, son, EVERYWHERE!
9. Love is one long sweet dream, and marriage is the alarm clock.
10. They say that when a man holds a woman's hand before marriage, it is love;
after marriage...it is self-defence.
11. When a newly married man looks happy, we know why. But, when a 10-year
married man looks happy, we wonder why.
12. Eighty percent of married man cheat in America , the rest cheat in Europe .
13. After marriage, husband and wife become two sides of a coin.
They just can't face each other, but still they stay together.
14. Before marriage, a man 'yearns' for the woman he loves.
After the marriage, the "Y" becomes silent.
15. It's not true that married men live longer than single men, it only seems longer.
16. When a man opens the door of his car for his wife, you can be sure for one thing
either the car is new or the wife is.

I retrieved this from an email.... hahaaaa. but i think it is to some extent true for most cases.
it scares me.

what scares me too is how a guy can be all so sweet to a girl .. .. being patient listening and wanting to know her problems. being encouraging. being such a good company. being accomodating. and the willingness to spend time with her.
such a girl is no fool too. would she not be able to tell the difference if a guy was just trying to be a friend or testing waters to be more than just friendly love?

if he does that just to be friendly.. i think you've crossed the line. actions speak louder than words. even a girl whose heart is covered with metal would have melted at the sweetness of all that.

to such a guy, please just make up your mind. be bold in actions or just stay out of her affairs!
to such a girl, please wake up from your sleeping beauty sleep. he may just be a playboy. he may just be just selfish and egoistic.

as guys have a mission in their life. to like as many girls as possible in their lifetime.
like it concerning to any girl, but just have self control!